Choosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start with We>Me

Is Marriage Worth it? Many couples say “I do” with a combination of high hopes and fairy tale fantasies—but there’s a difference between the expectations of marriage and the reality of what marriage holds. Whether you’re married, single, or dating, now is the time to ask yourself: What steps can I take today to build an incredible marriage for tomorrow?

Learn about eight powerful choices that will encourage and equip you to take your marriage from average to exceptional and find astonishing survey results from thousands of singles and couples on topics like love and attraction, sex, conflict, and communication.

A beautiful exchange occurs when you learn what it means to choose we before me.

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues as well as mental and emotional health. She is the author of five books, podcaster (Love + Relationships Podcast), and national speaker who is passionate about spreading the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.

She's the creator of the popular relationship advice blog TrueLoveDates.com, reaching millions of readers with her candid yet compassionate style, which combines psychology and faith.

Debra is a prolific writer, with well over 500+ articles about love, marriage, dating, sex, and relationships across the internet. Her articles have also been featured in magazines and websites such as Today's Christian Woman, Focus on the Family, Proverbs 31, IAmSecond, Converge Magazine, Relevant Magazine, Crosswalk.com, Charisma Magazine, Christianity Today, and many others.