The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage

Romance novels and Hallmark movies reveal a longing for lasting love, but does romance have to fade after “I do”? Lisa and Phylicia say, “Absolutely not!” Through their personal experiences, they invite wives to rediscover the spark in their marriage with practical, faith-filled encouragement.

This isn’t just about flirtation—it’s about building a marriage rooted in connection, intimacy, and joy. Each chapter explores key elements of a thriving relationship, such as covenant, healing, and hope.

Small, intentional actions can make a big difference in marriage, helping wives:

• Feel encouraged—Hope and practical steps to bring positive change.
• Gain confidence—Pursue romance with boldness and biblical wisdom.
• Experience deeper intimacy—Creative, meaningful love strengthens lifelong connection.

“Intentional flirting keeps a positive lightness in the atmosphere and improves our overall communication,” says Jacobson. “It helps us discover true romance waiting in everyday moments.”

For the wife who craves passion, closeness, and a deep heart connection but isn’t sure where to start, The Flirtation Experiment is an inspiring, real-life roadmap to lasting love—one playful, purposeful step at a time.

Pair it with The Flirtation Experiment Workbook for a deeper journey together.

Lisa Jacobson is an author, a speaker, and the founder and host of Club31Women.com, a powerful online community of Christian women authors who write weekly on the topics of husband, home, family, and biblical truths—a powerful voice for biblical womanhood. Her combined social media platforms have a reach well over 1 million viewers/visitors per month. She is the author of 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear. She lives with her husband, Matt, in the Pacific Northwest where they have raised their eight children.

Phylicia Masonheimer is a writer, speaker and podcast host teaching Christians how to know what they believe and live it boldly. Her heart is to teach women the history and depth of the Christian faith; the "why" behind the Bible. Her social media and blog cover topics ranging from sexuality to motherhood to bible study and faith in seasons of grief and loss.

Phylicia has a B.S. in Religion. She is married to her husband, Josh, and together they raise their three kiddos, Adeline, Geneva and Ivan, on a farm in northern Michigan.