Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

Do you ever find yourself thinking, Why are we having the same fight over and over again? Or Why don’t we understand each other better? What if there was a way to truly get your spouse—and for them to understand you, too? Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, have helped over 250,000 people discover their unique personality type and apply that knowledge to their relationships.

Becoming Us pulls back the curtain on marriage and weaves the Enneagram through the lense of the Gospel to reveal why you and your spouse behave in different ways. Beth and Jeff will explain how you can:

• Answer the question, “What is my spouse thinking?”; Defuse conflict before it starts, especially the same old arguments
• Stop assuming each other’s motives and make communication work; Affirm each other in meaningful ways that matter
• Enjoy your spouse all over again, even if you’ve loved each other for years

Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating a 50th anniversary, Becoming Us will revolutionize the way you view yourself and your spouse. Let Beth and Jeff guide you through the Enneagram and transform your marriage into the powerful relationship that God intended.

Yes, you really will understand your spouse better after you read this book.

Beth McCord, the founder of Your Enneagram Coach, has over 20 years of experience as an Enneagram speaker, coach, and bestselling author. She combines her expertise with a faith-based approach to help individuals discover themselves, foster genuine relationships, and create lasting change. With extensive training and a passion for simplifying the Enneagram, Beth offers coaching, workshops, and online courses to help others use the Enneagram confidently in their personal and professional lives. She lives in Tennessee with her husband, Jeff, and enjoys fly fishing and family time.

Pastor Jeff McCord, with a Masters of Divinity and certifications in pastoral counseling and Gospel coaching, has over 20 years of ministry experience. His in-depth study of the Enneagram since 2005 transformed his life and ministry, leading him and his wife, Beth, to found Your Enneagram Coach. Together, they aim to help individuals, couples, and groups find clarity, freedom, and healing through the Gospel and the Enneagram. Jeff and Beth live in Nashville with their children, Nate and Libby.